Many of us (and everyone who regularly reads this blog!) have been delving into the depths of our psyches for a long time now as well as doing practices that raise vibration. I believe we’ve raised the vibration of the whole to a place where the depths of whole cultures are rising to the surface. This means it’s time to explore our cultural beliefs and release those which no longer serve us.
I’m just exploring a few of them here that seem particularly relevant now.
Ever since I poked around the world of sports and wrote a piece on the dehumanizing attitude toward women (see post)– which I think reflects the general attitude of our culture in the U.S. — I’ve been thinking about patriarchy and the many ways in which it is insidiously deep in our culture — even in ways many women don’t see.
I’ve watched #MeToo impact men on Wall Street and in corporations by leading them to stop hiring women rather than cope with the possibility of accusations. Not really the triumphant outcome women were hoping for… And an indication of how deeply entrenched the patriarchy is.
There are still lots of women dressing like pole dancers and arguing that they’re “expressing themselves” and “feeling sexy”. I shake my head and wonder why the ONLY way they feel they’re expressing themselves or can feel sexy is to dress like a man’s wet dream. And it’s always the same Playboy type stuff.
How is that expressing your individual uniqueness to dress to suit someone else’s preferences? How is there nothing women themselves love that makes them feel sexy? Unique would be wearing an electric blue fedora with an emerald green ’80’s jacket, a yellow feather boa and orange tap pants… Weird, but an outfit that would tell me the woman has a particular sensibility and she’s expressing it. Dressing like every porn character and Playboy Bunny on the planet… not so much.
We’ve been so trained to define ourselves by our attractiveness to men, many women have no idea how to just be themselves and not care what men think.
For a long time I’ve worried occasionally about how much racism still existed. But like most, I was content to complacently assume the Civil Rights legislation took care of it… Still, a nagging worry that you can’t legislate people’s hearts kept appearing.
Nothing in those periodic doubts prepared me for the degree of racism we’re been confronting the last few years. And I’m realizing subtle aspects of racism lurk in most of us — including the usual victims of racist attitudes, who often hold their own beliefs about races other than their own. None of us can really know what it is to be in the skin of someone of another color, so none of us can totally understand.
Along with the overt white supremacy, equally worrying are many studies I’ve read about white people who aren’t overtly racist but who become emotional at training sessions about race. Corporations have stopped training and sent the instructors home when white people complained about what people of color tried to tell them about insensitivity and subtle racism.
If we can’t even manage to listen when people try to tell us what hurts, what we need to understand, how they need us to change, how can we possibly imagine more overt racism can be addressed?
Media and the Bad News/Good News dichotomy
In this day and age of worldwide media we’re so affected by news. The corporate-controlled mainstream media likes to focus on problems and negative news. It serves the powers that be to keep us in fear and, especially, upset with one another. Otherwise we might figure out our power and take over.
In the meantime positive news is happening every day. As I saw in a lovely interview with Jack Kornfield,
Each time there is a bad piece of news that gets publicized, there are 100 million acts of goodness that happen in that same hour—people putting a plate of cooked spaghetti in front of their child, people stopping at a red light so you can safely pass on the green, people planting gardens and designing new homes, millions of acts of goodness. Then there’s the beauty of life itself, where even after a rainstorm, we see the lavender reflections of the sunset in the puddles in the street.”
From Greater Good Magazine, “Why We Should Seek Happiness Even in Hard Times”
When our focus is constantly on the few negative things that happen and we ignore the millions of positive events every day, it skews our feelings about the world and then impacts our decisions to vote, participate, etc.
This negative focus mentality is so deeply embedded, it’s going to take a lot of concerted effort, releasing and shifting to move people’s focus to the positives of the world. See previous post for more on this topic.
Governments have to fix things for us
I’m not sure historically when the general belief that governments run the show and we depend upon them to keep things safe and secure — possibly monarchies and empires? — but I can see in lots of reactions to environmental issues there’s a widespread attitude it’s more up to government than us to save the environment and the world.
The more I observe what’s happening in recent years, the more I think the opposite is true. When we as individuals carry unresolved issues in our beings, we negatively impact everything, including the environment. When we as individuals consume mindlessly and do nothing to curtail our personal impact on the environment, we are culpable and governments can only do so much to reverse our thoughtless habits.
A whole movement has been quietly building for some years in which individuals have invented answers to environmental problems, formed co-ops to deal with multiple issues and cities have been in the forefront of government action on climate change and social justice.
So why do we still want to wring our hands and hope for a change in power so the government can save us?
These are just a few of the places in which we are so immersed in the beliefs and habits of our culture we can’t even see how we are trapped by them nor how we fail because of them to see other roads. Consumerism is also a big one but I almost think it would need its own post…
For those of us who know how to dig in the depths of consciousness, it’s time to look at the ways in which we are immersed in cultural norms and release them within ourselves. For those less familiar with tracking deep issues, it’s time to look at these issues and step outside the norms to create new ideas, programs, and directions.
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