In the last post I examined some issues in which most of us are so buried in cultural beliefs we can’t see past them. This time I’m taking up a few issues and suggesting possible alternative views that could change the game. Change the belief, change the thought=change reality.
Health Care — Change it all?
When the GOP first started attacking the ACA, threatening the health insurance of millions, I joined the multitudes in wringing hands. One day, though, as I contemplated people having no access to health care, I suddenly shifted to thinking about the health care I have known and used for the last 30 years –alternative.
Suddenly light bulbs flashed and I thought about how much better alternative care has served me than western/allopathic ever did. I could see people going to herbalists and body workers and acupuncturists and actually healing issues instead of covering the symptoms. And I thought, “could this actually be the way to shift our health care system to one that’s holistic and healthy and really good for people?”
Since I’ve not seen a “western” doctor or participated in any way in allopathic medicine for 30 years, it’s kind of funny it took me a while to make this mental leap. But I’d dutifully signed up for insurance to obey the law and am sufficiently immersed in the cultural thinking that I felt some measure of relief in having the “safety net” of insurance. When they tried to take it away, I felt the same sense of outrage most people were feeling.
As soon as I saw the path to a complete alternative, I calmed down about the sense we HAVE to have government-provided insurance. Most people spend so much on premiums and co-pays, if those payments were all removed, far more could afford the much-less-expensive alternative health care costs and we might become healthier for it.
Do we really need the allopathic health care system at all? Or should we be funding alternatives that treat people holistically and without the use of harmful pharmaceuticals. (Take that big pharma!!!) Changes the insurance debate completely.
Put the Burden on the Men
I’ve been seeing some deep and thought-provoking articles exploring men’s role in unwanted pregnancies and pointing out many ways in which making men legally responsible for pregnancy would change everything about the abortion debates. Others are pointing out that better support for pregnant women and young children would remove another set of reasons for not wanting a baby.
As I ruminated I realized we need to change the whole dynamic of the argument. It’s time to quit discussing in terms of Pro Choice and Anti-Choice, abortion or not abortion, both of which place the issue entirely on women and both of which lead to legislating women’s rights to their own bodies. Whichever way the legislation goes, it still suggests women need governments to direct or protect their own decisions and how they choose to deal with their own bodies.
As this terrific article pointed out, men are 100% responsible for unwanted pregnancies. But no one is discussing legislation to regulate their participation in unprotected sex. No one is talking about increased penalties for rape. No one is talking about regulating men as predators. And yet that is precisely where the discussion should be centered. Change men’s behavior and most unwanted pregnancies never happen so the need for abortion never arises.
Others point out that if you we put the time and attention into making it easier for women to keep and raise their babies, many abortions would never happen. Lower birth costs, find ways to help fund those costs, better and cheaper child care, increased wages, increase and expand the WIC program (supplemental nutritional program for pregnant women, breastfeeding women and children under 5. If we helped women who choose abortions because they can’t afford to have children, many would choose to keep the baby.
If the Anti-Choice crowd really cared about “Life” they would pursue these regulations for men and work on improving aid for pregnant women and their young children so the need to even consider abortion would drop dramatically. The fact that they choose to focus only on stopping abortion makes it clear that saving fetuses is not their real concern; regulating women is.
But I want to be clear, as long as liberals in general and the women’s movement in particular continue to accept the right wing framing of this issue as a problem for women instead of insisting on discussing it as what it really is — an issue about men’s irresponsible and arrogant behavior and refusal to own the consequences of their actions — we continue to condone the misinformed viewpoint that it’s women’s problem.
In the west, and particularly in America, our rampant consuming habits are responsible for (1) a vast portion of the climate change issues we face and (2) for providing the 2% with the profits they need to control us. It’s such a deep issue but one we really need to face.
I can see it in myself and I’m not even much of a shopper. But I own too much. And in the years of illness, as carry out and prepared foods have become ever easier to access, I have realized I waste huge amounts of wrapping, packaging, etc. by taking advantage regularly of the chance to have a decent meal without having to stand around preparing it. I’m working on re-thinking my buying habits and also how to contribute less to packaging waste.
When I look around I see many people far more immersed in consumerism than I am. I watch some of the design and house search type shows and have been finding two interesting extremes. The one that disturbs me involves people feeling they “have” to have the latest, nicest, and the most.
People who don’t cook but upon seeing a perfectly adequate but not recently-renovated kitchen announce, “it would HAVE to be redone”. And the number of women who, without a shade of embarrassment, inform us they need a 10×10 closet and will barely fit all their clothes in it are turning my stomach regularly.
I smile then at the other side, which is the tiny house movement in which people are reducing their possessions to a couple of trunks full and reducing their living space to incredibly small spaces (to me, claustrophobic!). I’m not sure we need to go to quite that extreme, but certainly a move much more in that direction is needed.
This tendency to buy and buy without worrying about whether things are fixable or recyclable or whether we could get something used runs so deeply in American culture and habits it’s going to be tough to get out of it. But if we’re really worried about the environment, it’s time for us to own how we contribute by mindless consuming and to find ways to reduce our enormously wasteful buying habits.
At the same time our buying habits contribute to environmental issues by using up resources and creating waste, we also contribute to those issues by keeping the global corporations who love to destroy the environment in profits and power.
If we start drastically changing our buying habits AND work at creating local grass roots movements to grow, produce, manufacture locally and buy as much as possible from local businesses and co-ops, we also can drive the multi-nationals out of business and power.
This isn’t a change that requires government intervention at all. It’s change that requires us to delve deep and shift our auto-buy behaviors while also creating new vibrant local economies.
I’m just trying to provide a few examples of how we need to step outside our ordinary thinking patterns if we want to change the world, so I’m leaving it with these three examples. I would love it if others who have thoughts about a whole new way to think about a major issue would either comment here, or better yet write a post about it and link it to this post.
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