Part of one of this week’s assignments in the Harmony and Co-Humanity class I’m taking was to watch this video. Meghan grew up in a right wing church that basically operated as a hate group, and did a complete 180 turn.
Her story is moving and her advice on bridging divides with considered dialogue are worth watching. Only 15 minutes:
A little over a week ago I started participating in an on line class called “Co-Human Harmony“. The idea is to work on understanding and tools to help create bridges in a divisive society or situation. I signed up because I think it’s so important right now and because I realize I even have a problem quite often about joining groups who are working for peace or justice (i.e. theoretically same view as mine) because I frame these issues so differently.
I’m loving the class but also struggling for the same reasons. The quite valid point of the class is to learn tools for bridging divides where people are, which is generally not in a place of understanding or accepting non-duality. And I’m realizing I’ve moved so far along the path of looking at everything from a spiritual/metaphysical viewpoint, I’m having trouble answering some of the course questions within a more “practical” framework.
I believe so thoroughly we’re all divine beings who are made of energy which is part of one unified field. And I am so used to using tools like (1) moving into heart energy and shifting a room with it or (2) chanting lovingkindness for someone with whom I’m at odds or (3) doing a meditation that balances energy between me and another person before we actually interact, that I think in those terms for bridges and healing rifts.
The teacher has pointed out it’s fine to think in those terms (and has encouraged me to continue) but for these situations we’re addressing how to be in a room with, say, a Neo-Nazi, and find a way to connect as humans so we can talk. And I’m guessing as we move from studying the theoretical framework to more practical applications it may become easier to just use and apply new concepts. But right now I’m floundering in attempts to talk about my understanding of various passages, videos, etc. on which we’re asked to comment without talking about energy and chakras and stuff.
I’m really seeing how far down this spiritual path I’ve gotten. I know, I know, seems goofy after this many years for this to be a new thought. But I’ve wound up mostly hanging around with other spiritual seekers who’ve been at it for years and though I know intellectually that most people don’t think this way, I’m rarely confronted in person with how totally different the drumbeat to which I march really is.
Since most of the folks who regularly read and participate here lead deeply spiritual lives I’m very interested and curious to hear your thoughts and stories about participating as a spiritually-enmeshed person in secular affairs. Comments are welcome but I’d be even more excited to see some of you write posts about living spiritually in a secular world.
BTW, I’ll still be continuing the People Power series but as I work through this class I’ll likely switch back and forth in topics.
In my last post I explored the puzzling contradictions of the right wing evangelical movement. It’s easy for liberals and leftists and spiritual types who pursue love and peace to shake their fists in fury and despise the hatefulness and hypocrisy rampant in the white nationalist propensities of so many folks who call themselves Christians.
Except fist shaking and fury are, you know, hateful too. I’m guilty of it and up to a point I see it as a good thing to initially feel angry when people lack humanity and are prepared to sacrifice the lives of every group they don’t like.
But at some point it seems to me true compassion requires a step back and the application of humanitarian instincts even to those who seem to have no compassion of their own. Brotherly love isn’t just for those with whom it’s easy to empathize. At its heart it requires the ability to dig deep and find love for everyone, even when it’s hard. Especially when it’s hard.
I see the hatefulness of the right wing as arising from huge fear. It would be tempting to offer my theories as to why they’re so afraid (and trust me, I have some), but I also feel like Right Listening requires us to engage in a conversation with them that helps them to dig deep and offer their own truth about fear or to tell us it’s something else.
And then to ask them what would help to assuage the fear. Discuss programs and possibilities and really hear their input instead of the usual pattern of designing a program from outside and imposing it on people without finding out what they want.
At this point, like many I know, I’d pretty much vote for anybody not the guy we’ve got now, but I wish we’d see some of the liberals putting some attention on healing our great divide by turning some compassion toward the “other side”.
A another blogger — also a friend — asked me recently to post something about being peace. I’ve been re-reading old posts and giving it some thought ever since, without quite landing on what I’d like to write.
In the meantime I felt drawn to yet another Steve Nobel meditation and I think it will make a nice opener to what I’m thinking may be a series of posts reflecting on peace.
This one, “The Sun Goddess Amaterasu Transmission. Embracing A Higher Flow of Pure Grace” is almost entirely about filling with grace and love and light from the Divine Feminine and I found it amazing. If enough of us start resonating with this level of grace and love most or all of the time the world will shift…
In the aftermath of Kate Spade’s and Anthony Bourdain’s suicides I’m seeing a spate of articles and info pieces on suicide prevention. The thing that always strikes me when I see analyses of not only suicide but also opiate abuse, addictions or other types of “dis-ease” of any sort, is that no one wants to talk about what I think is the heart of the matter.
In the “first world” we have cut ourselves off from nature, from our essential divinity and thereby from connection to our own souls. Spiritual types talk about it sometimes but the “experts” in these fields talk about these issues as problems with reasoned solutions, instead of ever acknowledging how broken we are by our basic culture.
Some 30 years ago, when I realized how much alcoholism there is on my family tree (not in my immediate family but at the level of aunts and uncles and great grands of various levels… rampant) I attended a few al anon meetings to explore whether I might have been affected.
At the time, immersed in examining how we create reality, I was horrified at the constant repetition of negative affirmations throughout the 12-step programs. “I am a drunk.” “I am a liar”. “I am powerless…” But even more, I was perturbed by the lack of acknowledging soul and our ability to tap into our own spirit and be transformed.
Over the years, as I have explored ever more deeply into spirit, I have also noted how wounded so many in our society seem to be because of being cut off from nature and its cycles and thus from their own connection to All That Is. I’ve kept waiting for the “experts” to understand how central that disconnect is to so many of our so-called diseases. I see the same issues deep within a lot of mental health problems.
So many solutions seem to just side-step the real issue; even to obscure the real issue by providing distractions from ever looking into the true heart of the matter. Our hearts need healing. Our souls need healing. And they don’t heal without a long tough journey through the stuff we don’t want to see.
I’m not sure how we nudge that change into being. But always I come back to knowing we all vibrate in the same web of being. Every time one of us heals something in our own hearts we add to the healing of all. Be the love. Be the peace. Heal your own heart.
I know, long time since you’ve seen a Journey 2 Peace post. Peace, love and compassion have been on my mind lately — or always? — and I’m finally seeing more essays in which people are calling for the power of love as the force we need to change, so I felt moved to return to J2P.
To me there are two parts to creating a peaceful, loving heart:
- clear away any negatives, lower energies, issues from your being
- fill yourself with love, raise your energy vibration
I’ve been working at both the clearing and the filling/raising for years. Recently I’ve been a bit more interested in the second part than the first, but last year after being introduced to Steve Nobel’s meditations, I fell in love and in part because they address both.
For nearly a year now I’ve been trying out various of his meditations, repeating some numerous times and always intrigued to try another new one. One of the things I really love about them is that virtually every one starts with some amount of clearing old energies. Some spend quite a bit of the meditation just on clearing. Some clear first and then work on raising energy or filling with love, etc. Some mainly balance chakras but do some negativity and lower energy clearing as part of working on each one.
All of them leave me feeling energized and elevated. Some of them rock me for days as the clearing and filling work their way through.
The latest one I’ve fallen in love with is The Archangel Chamuel Transmission: Becoming a Lighthouse of Love and Healing Light. Everything I aim for all in one meditation.
In recent months I’ve read a lot of articles about White Privilege, schooling me in the many ways I automatically am privileged because of the color of my skin. I kind of knew that, but it has been chilling to read whole collections detailing the experience of being a person of color in America.
One thing I kept noticing, though. in articles by women: some of the incidents they described left me frowning and thinking, “that happens to me too. It didn’t happen because you’re Black, it happened because you’re a woman.” Which is not to say they didn’t also describe plenty of examples stemming entirely from racism, but something really struck me about the way issues that might really be about gender seemed to be categorized as issues of race.
While white men remain at the top of the heap in terms of privilege and white women fare better than women of color, when it comes to gender rather than race, men of every color seem to do better on pay scales and advancement than women of any color (it’s a little hard to calculate because most studies break it down by the women’s races but not, say, white women compared to black men). Pondering that, I began wondering how much more power the women’s movement would have if ALL women banded together to demand gender equality as the biggest issue they endorse.
This brought me back to one of the notions I’ve pondered for years, relating to how splintered the movements for rights in general are. From women to LGBT to Blacks, Hispanics, Muslims, etc. the quest for rights is divided up into pockets of people agitating for the same rights but for specific groups. And I keep thinking, “what if we all joined together to be FOR human rights?”
How much power could we wield, how much change could we bring if all these groups who seek justice and equality joined together and sought them for all? Just thinkin’…. and wonderin’… and dreamin’