The week before I left for Marin, I had an appointment at which a big release in my head finally occurred. Always pressing for this long process to be over, I hoped the release might lead to finishing the unwinding process before I left.
Didn’t happen. So then I moved to hoping it would finish out there. Didn’t happen. Though the unwinding has been moving at quite a pace since the big hang-up piece released, it’s taking longer than I hoped.
it’s not that I don’t know better than to keep pushing. Not that I’m unaware that when I keep looking ahead I’m not staying in the moment. Patience and waiting have been major, ongoing lessons for me as I don’t do either naturally :-). But I’ve found it especially hard to keep myself from looking beyond the pain and discomfort of all this muscle stuff… to gaze hopefully into a future where my body is free and healthy.
I imagined that the unwinding would be done by the time I got to Marin and I’d spend my weeks there resting and meditating and contemplating my next steps. Instead, lots of unwinding happened there, though for once it didn’t interfere with sleep and I got tons of rest. Instead of mapping out the next phase, I slipped into relaxation, allowing the huge shift created before the trip to percolate through.
In spite of those hopes for “doneness” and planning, I quite naturally moved into being in the moment more than usual, enjoying the scenery, the quiet, reading and walking, etc. Since I’ve been home the unwinding has gone amuck again and is back interfering with sleep. And I’m frustrated again, wanting it to be over.
So much in my face is now open and so little is left… but the remaining pieces are the deepest core and they’re SO tight. I’m not sure how much longer — I just know every day I want it to be the last day.
While I struggle with patience, I’m also understanding all the “wait” messages I’ve been getting for some time. Besides the inner message I’ve been receiving for a while, lately I’ve been drawing runes and tarot cards with “wait” messages.
And finally I’m settling into a place where — at least some of the time — I am prepared to just wait. The inner wisdom is that while my body is reorganizing itself (more on that in another post) I need to just sit back and let it happen. It takes a lot of energy to re-do a body.
But sometimes, I kinda want to push the river 🙂
BTW: It’s Sunday, so I hope you’ve already found or still have set aside 10 or more minutes to pray or chant or meditate for/on peace. See CPS page for more info.